Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

During our recent pre-service, I surveyed the staff on the best way to start the school year off right. The number one answer from the staff was to communicate with the other people with whom you work. I have to agree. We need to build positive relationships between staff members first. We must take the time to talk and most importantly to listen to each other. Even as we do this, we are teaching ( modeling) for the children how to behave in a pro-social manner. We also need to know that we are working on common goals and working together and not against each other. We cannot be consistent and follow routines, if the one staff member is not aware of what the other is doing.
Communication with parents is equally important. If we truly want to help children succeed, we need to help parents be the best they can be and let them help us to be our best. We need to listen to their knowledge, needs, and concerns. Children who observe teachers and parents building positive relationships will be quicker to trust their teachers.
And finally, we must communicate with the children. We must listen to what they have to say and respect their feelings. If we are to build a positive relationship with the children, we need to take time to get to know them and to let them know a little about us. Relationships are a two way street, so allow the children to care about you and help you.
While registering children for our Health Fair, one little boy came up to the table, immediately turned down my offer of a sticker, and said very seriously, "I’m mad." He responded a little more to each of my questions and comments, telling me he didn’t like this school. I don’t know if he was afraid he might not like the school or simply was fearful of not knowing what to expect, but by taking time to let him express his feelings, reassure him that we were happy he was here, he became more comfortable and he left the table with a more positive attitude.
Take the time to communicate. It just might make a difference in someone's day.